1 Get Attention:
People have an innate need to be acknowledged and will complain to be noticed (e.g “I don't have time for that”)
 
2 Remove Responsibility:
People complain about the dificulty of a situation or task to remove themselves from taking responsibility to improve it (e.g. “its impossible to do that”).
 
3 Inspire Envy:
This type of complaining can be bragging (e.g “my boss is stupid” is a way of saying “I am smarter than my boss and if I was in charge,things would be better”).
 
4 Power:
Having power over others instead of power with others (i.e. “if it ever comes down to it, here are the reasons why I want to have you on my side”).
 
5 Excuse For Poor Performance:
People complaining about why they did not perform up to the required standard (e.g. “the sun was in my eyes”).
 
Do you recognise any of those reasons why people complain? I know I did when I saw them I continue to be mindful of them and of the language I use as I practice taking full responsibility for my life
 
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