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NO: 2 below. WOMAN STAND UP Be STRONG and INDEPENDENT.
Do not compare yourself to other women. While there is nothing wrong with having a female model to which you refer, always feel jealous of other women will leave a terrible feeling about yourself. And although jealousy is natural to some extent, Western society tends to exacerbate the female jealousy through advertisements and films with unrealistic standards of beauty. The result is a culture of women feeling somewhat confident and unhappy with their bodies.
The first step to overcoming jealousy is to recognize when you are a victim. If you read a magazine, and compare your body to those models,
take a moment to remember two things:
a) women are paid to look beautiful and many of them have a little healthy lifestyle to keep their measurements.
b) the image really adds weight, women apparently "perfect" in magazines or in movies are usually skeletal in real life.
Try not to compare your physical defects with qualities similar to other women.
c) Every woman has her best assets, whether her breasts, her legs, her arms, her eyes, her hair or her buttocks. Forget wanting to be perfect and beautiful in all these aspects already enjoy your strengths.
Do not base your happiness on being in a relationship. Have a man (or woman) to love should enhance your life, not define it. No matter how you feel the need to have a relationship, you must first learn to love yourself before you can begin to love someone else.
Remember that nothing lasts forever. Even the perfect relationship may end one day, so you must be sure to be mentally strong enough to be able to give you a break or divorce.
If you are already in a relationship, make sure you have a "life" outside of the latter, be it school, work, friends, a workout routine or your family.
Do not feel obliged to follow the trends of fashion. Being an independent woman means dressing as you like, regardless of what people around you tell you to wear. Simply use fashion as a way to express your mood, taste and creativity.
Remember that there is a reason why designers use models of 40 pounds on the catwalk: whatever is in vogue does not necessarily give a flattering silhouette. When deciding what to wear, you need to consider your body type and your personal taste.
There is nothing wrong with being avant-garde, but do not force you to follow the trends that you do or do not like you going. If you like to follow trends, so learn to adapt to your body and personality by putting your personal touch.
Every woman, at one time or another, meets a man wanting to take advantage of her sexually. It is important to learn both how and when to say no to a man you making improper advances.
If a man sexually assaults you, then say so absolutely anyone. The company has taught women to feel ashamed or embarrassed to be assaulted, individuals going so far as to claim that some women the "ask". Let a man get away after committing a sex crime impunity and leaves him the opportunity to start over.
Report any sexual harassment in the workplace or at school. Remember that report such acts is not only for your own good, but that it could prevent the man from harassing other women in the future.
If you live in a big city or a little safe area, take with you a tear gas bomb or a pocket knife anywhere you go.
Signed: Hrh Prince Agoumousse D.
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