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Comment by Otedo News on June 10, 2022 at 10:02pm

Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship:

Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

Date nights are a must.
Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

Learn each others love language.
We all don’t perceive love the same way.

Go to bed mad sometimes.
Don’t force a resolution.
Sleeping on it does help.

When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

It will get boring sometimes.
Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.
It’s normal.
It will fade.
This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

It’s okay to go to couples counselling.
It helps.
It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

Talk about money.
Talk about your financial goals.
Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

Ask questions like

“What do you need to see more of from me?”
“How can we understand each other better?”

And most importantly, be kind to each other.

Love each other.

Fight for each other.

Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it.

Comment by Otedo News on January 9, 2022 at 6:36pm

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THE POTENTIAL KILLERs OF MEN

● Children school fees
● house rents
● Electricity bills
● Medical bills
● Generator fuel & repairs
● Car fuel and repairs
● Feeding of family
● Clothes for children
● Sallah or Christmas and New year bills
● Furniture & House maintenance
● In-laws wahala/demand
● His own aged parents
● His siblings most times
● His wife's demands
● Vigilante bills
● Erecting Building
● Religious demands
● Family social bills
● Electronics bills
● Recharge cards
● Extended family bills
● Community demands

On top of the above, he also faces the followings :

● *Wife stress
● Boss stress at work
● Police stress on the way
● Area boys stress
● Kidnappers fear
● Friends stress
● Economy stress
● Fear of job loss
● Unemployment pains
● Armed Robbery stress
● Children misbehaviour
● Neighbours stress
● Bank loan payment stress
● Enemies stress
● Demonic attack stress
● Sex stress

..and so on! OMG!!

Are these reasons not enough for all African Wives to understand and give their husbands peace at home ?

Are men not trying ?

How can an African man with these kind of loads be romantic like an American man ?

Women, please give your husband's peace at home.

Encourage your husbands.

Stop being sarcastic to them. Except if you like to join the widows club early!

Note: That club is not funny. Ask members. Help your husband. Contribute to the family.

Be a helper. Be submissive. Stop nagging.

Build your home and marriage. It is not greener outside there. Don't be deceived!!

Help your husband to live longer like you.

Comment by Otedo News on June 29, 2021 at 1:35pm

A WOMAN CAN ALSO UPLIFT HER MAN
Kanye West was in debt of about $52million and everyone forgot and ignored him. His wife Kim created a game called Kimoji that generated $80 million. She transferred $52 million into his account and cleared up his debts.

Today Kanye worth is about $1.3 billion.
A man needs an intelligent and industrious wife beside him. Not a beautiful clueless Lady who all they want is to marry a rich man who has it all. As a lady develop yourself don't be a liability be an asset to a man.

Comment by Otedo News on July 13, 2017 at 5:48pm

HOW TO GET A WOMAN'S MAXIMUM RESPECT WITHOUT SHOUTING
1. Always leave money in your pocket for her to take not steal oh. The higher the denomination the higher the respect. If you leave N10, you get N10 respect. But for the highest of highest respect, leave hard currency. This is necessary. When she wakes up in the morning, you 'll see how happy she's because she has succeeded
2. Never ever argue with her on the price of anything. If she tells you a bag of rice is 30k, don't argue. Just give her the money. No need calling papa John to ask how much is it. It brings about see finish. If she tells you no milk give her the money, don't go checking the closet to ensure it's actually finished.
3. Always admire and praise her. Even if she looks like monkey licking lime, tell her you're the most beautiful woman you 've ever seen. Praise her k-leg, flat nose, olipi etc.
4. Give her money even if she's working. Women loves men's money. I don't know why . Give her without her asking you. It increases respect. Give her money to perm her hair, to buy chewing gum or to buy N100 recharge card.
5. Always bring paper bag home for her. Even if it's groundnut that's inside. Don't ever return home without anything for madam. Am so used to it that hubs bought me worm medicine once.
6. Treat her like a queen. Pet her like an egg. Listen to her. Don't shout her down for any reason. Even if she's not making sense, laugh holding your head and belle.
7. For the other room biz, it shouldn't be all about you. Don't come home and say "mama John go wait me for room" or you come home smiling and tell her "conji de do me" without asking how is she.
8. Go out with her whether you 've car or not. I know a lady the only time she entered her hubs car was when their 13 year old son suddenly collapsed and died in the house. It's not good, brother.
9. Don't steal her money but she can take yours . Wives dont steal but take. Any man that 'thiefs' his wife money loses respect without applying for it.
10. Always be impressed with her food. Even if the egusi is just water and leaves in one side while melon on the other side, lick your hands. Afterall if you had wanted a good cook, you for marry caterer..
11. When you come home in the evening always have your bath especially before the other room biz. This is very important if you are a truck pusher or a breaker of logs. No woman wants to lick your sweat.
12. Never ever press toothpaste from the middle. Press from the bottom. Also don't wear sandy shoes into the house or you use your shoe to climb the bed. It brings about see finish.
13. When she travels for only one week with the children, don't use all the plates, pots, cups and spoons in the house and pile them up for her to come wash. She's not your housegirl oh. Try and wash them brother. Don't also soak your clothes for her to come wash. She's not a washing machine.
14. Don't come home at 1am and expect her to come open the gate for you. She's not your aboki. If you know you are a bat get an aboki to be opening gate for you.
15. Summer holiday is coming take her on a vacation. Don't be too selfish. Take her to the beach even if it Enabulele Enabulele
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Comment by Otedo News on April 19, 2017 at 5:10am

Advice To All Random Guys

When you find a good woman, keep her. Don't go sleeping around. Vaginas are the same, maybe a lil difference in the diameter or what you feel for the owner.

*Once in a while, resist the urge to bring out your prick. Pretend like you're not in the mood that day. It boosts your self-control and desirability ratings.

*That you took a girl on a date or gave her cash/gift doesn't mean she must follow you to your house and allow you bend her like straw on your bed, while you administer prick with tangential expertise. If you want women that will give you sex for the money, go to Allen Avenue Or Ijora 7up Railway.

*If a woman turns your proposal down, be mature enough to take it.
Don't go slutshaming her or all those silly things some of you do!

*If for any reason you stop being interested in your girl, let her go. Don't play her along while increasing her vagina mileage.

For those end time boys, that will know their friend is cheating on his babe but be calling her "our wife"...amadioha will visit you soon.... Amen? Amen!!!!✍

Amadi Promzy Chimenem

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Comment by Otedo News on June 15, 2015 at 10:02pm

5 things a woman should not do for love

When some women fall in love, they fall hard. Women are naturally 
compassionate and loving by nature. With these characteristics, we get 
criticized sometimes or taken for granted. As much as we know how 
difficult relationships might be, some of these emotions are overridden 
by men, which lead to bad break-ups.
Here are some things you should not do solely because you are in love with a man.

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